Language use in marital relationship must be free of jargon, technical terms, and be uncomplicated rather it must be simple and clear. Likewise language-use must align with the personality of both the sender and the receiver.
Simplicity is a virtue and not a weakness. When simplicity takes root in the communication of couples, it takes care of perpetual conflict and noise, and it makes feedback relevant as communication becomes noise where feedback is irrelevant
The communication process is incomplete where feedback is lacking. Meanwhile, feedback can either be relevant or irrelevant, depending on whether the message is being passed through the right channel and is well decoded (understood) by the receiver (your spouse).
The quality of feedback gotten in the process of communication depends on how well the information or message been passed is well understood. For this reason, the message to be passed to your spouse has to be passed with all simplicity.
Effective communication is one of the keys to marital bliss; hence, you have to be deliberate with the process so as to get your desired result and maximize the information you get from your spouse for the growth of your marital relationship.
One of the virtues that anyone who wants to be an irresistible lover should have in his or her portfolio is communication skills. Talking, gesturing, or writing does not imply effective communication most of the time. In other words, you can engage a person in a conversation and yet not communicate effectively with them, and vice versa.
This quarter, we are looking into the portfolio of an irresistible lover, that is, those virtues that you need to have if you will become irresistible to your marital partner.
For with this training, you will naturally quit counseling by intuition and acquire the needed skill to have a sustainable result in resolving your clients' trauma or challenges and become the pro that you've always desire to be.