courtship

Simplicity is a virtue and not a weakness. When simplicity takes root in the communication of couples, it takes care of perpetual conflict and noise, and it makes feedback relevant as communication becomes noise where feedback is irrelevant

The communication process is incomplete where feedback is lacking. Meanwhile, feedback can either be relevant or irrelevant, depending on whether the message is being passed through the right channel and is well decoded (understood) by the receiver (your spouse).

The quality of feedback gotten in the process of communication depends on how well the information or message been passed is well understood. For this reason, the message to be passed to your spouse has to be passed with all simplicity.

Effective communication is one of the keys to marital bliss; hence, you have to be deliberate with the process so as to get your desired result and maximize the information you get from your spouse for the growth of your marital relationship.

One of the virtues that anyone who wants to be an irresistible lover should have in his or her portfolio is communication skills. Talking, gesturing, or writing does not imply effective communication most of the time. In other words, you can engage a person in a conversation and yet not communicate effectively with them, and vice versa.

This quarter, we are looking into the portfolio of an irresistible lover, that is, those virtues that you need to have if you will become irresistible to your marital partner.

To maximize your marital relationship as God intended, you need adequate knowledge about marriage and about your intending spouse or spouse.

Overcoming phone or social media addiction is simple, especially if one is deliberate about it, though it might not be easy because most people have their phones as their second office.

Excessive use of the phone or social media is not only detrimental to general body health, mental wellness, and day-to-day living; it could also put a strain on your marital relationship with damaging effects. When either or both partners in a marital relationship are struggling with excessive use of social media or phones, it will sabotage their time for good communication, and that will take a negative turn on the quality of their relationship because of the emotional gap it will create.

Your mind is your greatest sexual organ; if your mind is not in tune with a sexual activity, you cannot sustain your arousal. For this reason, you should be more deliberate about what enters your mind by guiding it with all diligence.