The level to which there is agreement between you and your spouse is the degree to which your marriage can be blissful or enjoyable, more reason the role of compatibility cannot be over emphasized in a marital relationship.
To ascertain intellectual compatibility you must pay attention to the self-esteem of your intending spouse. Where he or she have unhealthy self-esteem, intellectual abusive is inevitable, irrespective of whether he or she is at advantage in academic, career, finance or is more socially inclined than you are.
Intellectual incompatibility is a big red flag in a marital relationship, its symptoms are always very bold but mostly ignored on the part of people who are desperate for a union, tired of singleness, and want to change their father’s name by all standard.
Spiritual compatibility promotes synergy, apt understanding, high productivity and security among couples because of the emotional stability it fosters and helps their children to become well-adjusted and responsible members of the society.
Spiritual incompatibility could wage a serious war against marriage and wreck the harmony of a promising home. In my position as a counseling psychologist and God’s servant, I have seen how spiritual incompatibility has breed emotional gaps, caused perpetual conflict in a marital relationship, and eventually crumbled both.