Don’t be too quick to give up on your courtship or marriage. The house on the rock even witnessed the challenges of the wind, the storm, and the rain. Meaning that the fact that the Lord is leading you into a marital relationship is not a license against challenges, for no relationship is immunized against challenges.
Not being resilient can be likened to a strong magnetic force that can keep attracting a person to failure perpetually if not diligently fought, but with resilience, one becomes optimistic, positive in and out, to overcome negativity and be more productive in all areas of life, marriage inclusive.