A person is said to be realistic when he or she is sensible and practical enough to know what is achievable at a given time and know how to go about it.
Reality does not displace faith; rather, being realistic will help anyone make a well-informed decision as to what to trust God for and how to align one’s faith with getting it done.
Do not hesitate to seek appropriate help, and that also applies to paying attention to yourself and seeking help when you need it; asking for help is about simplicity and not vulnerability.
What are you saying to your child? What do you call him or her? What you consistently say to your child daily is a reflection of your perception of him or her, and if care is not taken, that child will not go beyond that because whatever you call him…