Courtship is a period of time set aside by two mature, opposite members of a society to gather information about one another for the purpose of marriage.
Many of the incidents of domestic violence or intimate partner violence around the world today are a response to a lack of adequate knowledge among the parties involved in such marital relationships about themselves, resulting in a consistent misunderstanding or perpetual conflict.
To have the new experience you have always longed to have in your marital relationship and in life generally, you have to position yourself to receive the new knowledge that will help you.