An average lady is good at making fantasies, and this is because ladies have a stronger imaginative mind and can be more emotional than men. On many occasions, most ladies already have a picture of what their husband must look like, especially physically and materially, based on the movies they have seen and the magazines they have read. This is not to say that men do not have expectations of the kind of women they want to marry; just that fantasy is more pronounced in women than men.
However, real people live in the real world; fantasy will not lead any marital relationship to any good destination. Sometimes your expectations of your spouses might be in their potential state, which will manifest with time and patience.
Also, it is very important that you learn how not to put the responsibility of what God alone can do for you on your spouse. Unrealistic expectations do erode marital commitment faster than it can be imagined, just as erosion will always wash away the top layer of the soil.
List all the unrealistic expectations you have about your spouse and trash them, as they can sink your relationship.
QUOTE OF THE DAY
Real people live in the real world; unrealistic expectations and fantasy will not lead any marital relationship to a good destination.