Knowing the personality of your spouse helps you to accept him or her unconditionally, which further empowers you to shun comparing him or her with your ex-lover, your parents, siblings, friends, and neighbors.
Courtship is a period of time set aside by two matures, opposite members of a society to gather information about one another for the purpose of marriage.
Self-love means having high regard for your own well-being and happiness, when one does not have regard for what matters to his or her happiness, one cannot make others happy.