Year: 2023

You have to learn on how to deal or relate with your marital partner as an individual and not judge him or her base on his association, career choice and relatives.

Two cannot work together except they agree neither can you and your spouse form a forcible team that can bring down ten thousand with cognitive-bias.

For you to enjoy effective listening in your marital relationship, you have to intentionally shun whatever anybody has told you ahead what your spouse has to say, give your spouse a benefit of doubt at all time in your communication until he or she is proven wrong.

Listening is more than hearing, as it entails giving the necessary attention that can enhance the understanding of the message passed and boosting the relevance of the feedback given and received

Hearing is not the same as listening. Hearing could be compared to the gathering of wind or noise when it lacks understanding of the message that is being passed, while listening involves paying undivided attention to your spouse as he or she communicates with you so as to pick up…

Communication only takes place when understanding is gained and this can be measured by the relevance of the feedback received.

As much as making eye contact makes communication simple, it has to follow the right body language so as not to create unnecessary tension that defect the purpose of communication.