It is not enough to trust your marital partner with the details of your past and intimate him or her with your future aspirations. At the same time, he or her should be in the knowing of the details of each passing moment of your life; for marriage makes you one. Both of you should be free to express yourself to one another, without fear or intimidation.
However, the presence of fear is an indication of the absence of love and love is an essential bedrock you need for commitment to take place genuinely in your marital relationship.
Is your partner aware of what you are going through right now? If not, why not? Please reach out to us if you think you need help.