THE PHLEGMATIC SPOUSE AND THE OPPOSITE SEX
Phlegmatic spouses are introverts just like melancholy; the major difference is that phlegmatics are peace personified to the core, always having low energy, and they are unlikely to be motivated without pressure or a deadline. Their timid and fearful natures usually make them secret lovers. The fear of failure usually overcomes their strong desire to be successful and make a great impact in life.
Phlegmatic individuals are usually loved by most people because of their calm nature. They love people genuinely, and they love to be around people; though they are not outspoken, they have a sense of dry humor that makes them stick to their company.
Nevertheless, because they are so indecisive and are usually unsure about a romantic relationship, they prefer to be matched for a marital relationship rather than going through the wooing of a lady or having to decide on who to marry.
Sometimes, they can marry late where there is no major pressure, but once they are married, they always stick to their partners and stay faithful to their marriage vow, as they rarely double-date or take another spouse.