HAPPY NEW MONTH
To have the new experience you have always longed to have in your marital relationship and in life generally, you have to position yourself to receive the new knowledge that will help you.
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Feb, 23
BITTER ENVY; IMPACT OF NEGATIVE SELF- PERCEPTION.
Not seeking help and not accepting faults are both indications of negative self-perception, which could afterward trigger bitter envy if not diagnosed and treated on time.
NEGATIVE SELF-PERCEPTION
Self-perception is negative when your estimation of yourself falls short of your strength or when your strength is overrated beyond what it is.
DIVIDEND OF SELF-LOVE; IT ENHANCES SELF- MAXIMIZATION.
For you to be maximized either as single or married, you have to embrace the three bedrocks of positive self-perception, which are self-knowledge, self-acceptance, and self-love accordingly. May you fully maximize all the potentials God has deposited in you.
DIVIDENDS OF SELF-ACCEPTANCE; IT ENHANCE SELF-APPRECIATION.
Self-appreciation helps you to place the right value on yourself, see yourself in the right light which further, will enlarge your heart for gratitude towards God, your spouse and others.
SELF-ACCEPTANCE
Beyond knowing yourself, you have to accept that which you have come to know about yourself, because self-knowledge will yield little or no dividend without self-acceptance.
BENEFITS OF SELF-KNOWLEDGE; SELF-CONTROL.
Self-control is very germane to marital success because after choosing your spouse, you will always come in contact with other persons who are more youthful, logical, appealing, inspiring, focused, visionary, gifted or talented. Your emotions are liable to be trigger at the thought, the sight or at the harmless touches by such persons but you […]
BENEFITS OF SELF- KNOWLEDGE; RESISTANCE TO SOCIAL PRESSURE.
Social pressure is a consistent direct or indirect influence from members of the society that share experiences with you. Such as your peers, family, neighbors or religious circle; We refer to these people as your social circle. Social pressure could make its victim go out of his/her desire to comply with their social circle against […]
BENEFIT OF SELF KNOWLEDGE; IT ENHANCES TOLERANCE AND UNDERSTANDING OF PEOPLE.
Understanding is the Hallmark of every thriving relationship; where there is no understanding there is consequently no relationship. Understanding is like oil that lubricates human relationships and reduces friction or persistent conflict. When one understands himself/herself it becomes easier to give allowance to others and be less critical both on self and on others, hence; […]
EIGHT WAYS TO HELP YOUR SPOUSE OVERCOME CHILDHOOD TRAUMA
Helping your spouse overcome childhood trauma is not only beneficial to your spouse but impacts greatly on your marriage and family life. Therefore, there is the need to give attention to the ways by which you can help your partner overcome childhood trauma in order to have a blissful marriage.