Yesterday, it was emphasized that you need to imbibe the intentional culture of a teacher so as to be as effective as you desire to be in your parenting task. Likewise, you must as well be intentional about giving instructions as a father or mother.
Children do better with guidance, and one of the major tools needed for guidance is instruction. When you hold back instructions from your children, they find the decision making process difficult and are more likely to act based on their impulses and the dictates of their social influences rather than following critical thinking.
An instructor is always a lifesaver